Proverbs 15:21-22 (ESV)
21 Folly is a joy to him who lacks sense,
but a man of understanding walks straight ahead.
22 Without counsel plans fail,
but with many advisers they succeed.
The fool actually delights in foolishness. She finds pleasure in disregarding God’s commands and following her own desires. Rather than submitting to God’s wisdom, she pursues whatever seems enjoyable in the moment. Because she does not fear the Lord, she gives little thought to the long term consequences of her choices. What God calls foolish, she celebrates. What God condemns, she enjoys.
In contrast, “a man of understanding walks straight ahead.” The wise person delights in walking according to God’s truth and remaining on the path of righteousness. Rather than constantly wandering from one desire to another, she lives with purpose and direction. Her life is marked by stability because she knows where she is going. The wise woman understands that God’s way leads to lasting joy, so she gladly remains on the right path even when doing so requires sacrifice.
This principle reminds us of the example of Christ. Hebrews 12:2 tells us that Jesus endured the cross “for the joy that was set before him.” He willingly endured suffering because he understood the glorious outcome that awaited him. In a similar way, the wise woman is willing to deny sinful desires because she knows that God’s path ultimately leads to greater blessing, greater usefulness, and greater joy.
Solomon then turns to the subject of counsel. “Without counsel plans fail, but with many advisers they succeed.” Pride often convinces us that we already have all the answers. A woman may make decisions about her marriage, parenting, finances, ministry, or friendships without ever seeking input from others. She assumes her conclusions are correct and sees no need for outside wisdom. Yet Solomon warns that such independence leads to failure.
Those who are humble recognize their need for godly counsel. They seek advice from mature believers, trusted friends, and wise leaders who can help them see what they may be missing. As different perspectives are carefully considered, plans are strengthened and costly mistakes are often avoided. What about you? When making decisions, do you seek the wisdom of other godly voices? Begin with Scripture and prayer, then seek counsel from a few trusted believers who know God’s word and care enough to speak honestly. Though receiving advice may sometimes feel uncomfortable, God uses the wisdom of others to keep us walking on the right path.