Proverbs 9:6-8 (ESV)
6 Leave your simple ways, and live,
and walk in the way of insight.”
7 Whoever corrects a scoffer gets himself abuse,
and he who reproves a wicked man incurs injury.
8 Do not reprove a scoffer, or he will hate you;
reprove a wise man, and he will love you.
Wisdom has done everything necessary, and now she calls for a response. “Leave your simple ways, and live, and walk in the way of insight.” This is a call to repentance. It is not a small adjustment but a decisive, life changing turn. Leave the old path. Walk away from it. There is no life apart from this turning. To remain as you are is to stay on the path that leads to destruction.
Then the focus shifts to how people respond to correction. “Whoever corrects a scoffer gets himself abuse.” The Hebrew word translated “correct” (yasar) carries the idea of strong discipline or firm instruction. The scoffer does not receive it. She rejects it, resents it, and lashes out against it. She refuses authority, even the authority of the Lord himself. The same is true of the wicked. To reprove them is to invite injury. They do not want to be exposed, humbled, or turned. Correction feels like a threat, so they respond with hostility. Sometimes it is verbal, sometimes more, but either way they make it clear that they will not be told they are wrong.
So verse 8 gives a sober warning. “Do not reprove a scoffer, or he will hate you.” The Hebrew verb translated “reprove” (yakach) means to warn or confront. There comes a point when continued correction is not only fruitless but even dangerous. Jesus gave a similar instruction in Matthew 7:6. If someone persistently rejects truth and hardens herself against it, pressing further will not produce repentance. It will only produce deeper resistance.
But there is a sharp contrast. “Reprove a wise man, and he will love you.” The wise person receives correction differently. She may not enjoy being told she is wrong, but she values it because she knows she needs it. She welcomes it because she fears God more than she fears being exposed. Her willingness to receive correction is not weakness but wisdom. It is how she grows and how she remains on the right path.
Do you consider yourself wise? Then you must be marked by a willingness to receive correction. The scoffer hates correction and proves her folly, but the wise person loves it and proves her wisdom. If you bristle at correction, resist it, or avoid those who speak truth into your life, you are not protecting yourself, you are exposing yourself. The one who refuses correction is not strong or confident, she is blind. And if you refuse the correction God so kindly gives, whether through his word or others, you are walking the wrong road, the one wisdom calls you to leave, for it does not end in life but in death.


“If you bristle at correction, resist it, or avoid those who speak truth into your life, you are not protecting yourself, you are exposing yourself” This was so convicting to me. I often find myself bristling at correction. Lord help me to see these corrections as opportunities to examine myself and repent when needed. To grow in areas I need to grow, to be pleasing to you. Especially when it is correction from my husband. Help to be humble, examine myself and accept truth when it is spoken to me.
Ha! I am right there with you, friend, especially when it is my husband. Lord Jesus, help us receive correction with joy, trusting that you use it to grow us in wisdom.