Proverbs 11:12-13 (ESV)
12 Whoever belittles his neighbor lacks sense,
but a man of understanding remains silent.
13 Whoever goes about slandering reveals secrets,
but he who is trustworthy in spirit keeps a thing covered.
Though we may see faults in our neighbors, as humans, they bear the image of God, and are therefore valuable to him. It is foolish then to express disdain toward your neighbors, as they are of great worth to the Lord. The one who is wise controls her tongue, refraining from revealing everything she knows. The woman of understanding is not fueled by hate or vengeance, but loves those around her,keeping the confidence of her friends. The one who makes public the private conversations between so-called friends destroys the community by creating trouble. Jealousy, revenge, financial gain, or a fondness for trouble drives the wicked woman to sever relationships. When you are privy to information about another, do you leak it out or do you remain quiet? How would you feel if your innermost secrets and struggles became public knowledge? Do right by protecting the reputation of others today.