Proverbs 16:20-22 (ESV)
20 Whoever gives thought to the word will discover good,
and blessed is he who trusts in the Lord.
21 The wise of heart is called discerning,
and sweetness of speech increases persuasiveness.
22 Good sense is a fountain of life to him who has it,
but the instruction of fools is folly.
The wise woman gives attention to the Scripture and is blessed as a result. She watches her words, making sure they are consistent with the teaching that comes from God. The wise woman also uses her words to persuade others to consider their own behavior. She encourages them to make good decisions that will lead to a life without regrets. The righteous provide words of life; they instruct others to align their choices with biblical law and principle. When we bring God’s truth to the people he has placed in our sphere of influence, we can be a catalyst for spiritual growth in their lives. Help others to consider the choices they must make. What will be the outcome of their behavior one hundred years from now? Be consistent with the advice you give, living out everything you say and do in light of eternity.