Proverbs 12:24-25 (ESV)
24 The hand of the diligent will rule,
while the slothful will be put to forced labor.
25 Anxiety in a man’s heart weighs him down,
but a good word makes him glad.
Those who work hard will eventually rise to positions of leadership. But the woman who is not self- motivated, who fails to manage her time and energy well, will end up forced to work for another. Fear leads to anxiety, and anxiety creates an unnecessary burden on the soul, leading to depression and a desire to quit trying. But the encouraging word of a friend brings hope and healing to the restless heart. Jesus taught his disciples about the crippling effects of anxiety. He reminded them that if they had food and clothing, they were to be content, as he promised never to leave or forsake them. Do you purpose to gladden the hearts of others? Or do you cause them to feel weighed down and even hopeless? If you are married, do you encourage your husband, or does he hear that he’s not doing enough to make you happy?