Proverbs 12:16-18 (ESV)
16 The vexation of a fool is known at once,
but the prudent ignores an insult.
17 Whoever speaks the truth gives honest evidence,
but a false witness utters deceit.
18 There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts,
but the tongue of the wise brings healing.
The foolish woman fails to control her emotions. When she’s been wronged, she lets everyone know. She loves the fight and doesn’t seek to resolve differences with others. The one who is wise holds her tongue when accused and readily forgives those who have offended her. Her composure vindicates her character. The honest witness tells the entire truth in court, and doesn’t add to or leave out facts in an attempt to damage others. Just as a sword can harm or kill, so can the words of the woman who speaks against another. The wise woman seeks restoration and reconciliation in relationships, desiring the glory of God over personal vindication. When you have been misunderstood, are you passionate about making sure your public image is protected? When those who love God wrestle with one another regarding who was right and wrong, the world watches and laughs. Learn to truly let it go for the sake of the gospel.